Aware Polyamory: a blog about loving several

Aware Polyamory: a blog about loving several

POLY CONS

Lest we become pollyannaish about polyamory, check out regarding the downsides of loving partners that are multiple

JEALOUSY

While also a nagging problem in monogamous relationships, possibilities to experience envy and FOMO are far more typical when there will be numerous lovers. Those a new comer to poly may feel disgust or even repulsion towards metamours, especially if these are typically icked away by getting into secondhand experience of others’ fluids. Feeling jealous is a rather normal feeling and does not mean you’re bad or perhaps not cut fully out for polyamory. Nonetheless, it could be extremely unpleasant to see (on both ends!) and suffering may also become a prophesy that is self-fulfilling. As Shakespeare said, “There is absolutely absolutely absolutely nothing either bad or good but thinking causes it to be therefore.” Checking out what exactly is beneath these emotions and just how we usually unconsciously play away social narratives can usually help sort them away.

COMPLEXITY

A lot of both while the feeling of love is abundant, time and energy are often scarce resources and polyamory demands. Nastavi čitati “Aware Polyamory: a blog about loving several”